Do say to the grieving parents - "I love you!"

Do say to the grieving parents - "I am here to listen when you want to talk about your precious baby."

Do say to the grieving parents - "Can I watch the other children so you can rest."

Do say to the grieving parents - "Can I clean the house for you while you rest."

Do say to the grieving parents - I will pass your child's story along to everyone I know. This could save the lives and other children and give the parents a purpose.

Do mention the child. Ask questions. What was his/her favorite food, toy, movie, game.

Do offer to go to the child's grave with the parent. If they don't want to go, go yourself and leave a flower or something that lets the parents know someone else has been there.

Do mark down the child's birthday and heaven day and call/send a note to the parent letting them know you are thinking of them.

Do write in the child's memorial guestbook when you think of them. It could be a small light on a very dark day.

Do say to the grieving parents - "Can I do anything for you?"